What serves a white male is to see and acknowledge the world women, people of color, people of gender difference have had to navigate to just exist.
To see this, fully, without a condescending lens, reminding you that your view of the world is nourished and supported just by the dominant presence as male and white, is not shaming or diminishing you.
Seeing others, fully, is activism at its most glorious. Seeing others, fully, is our greatest work as a “human” race.